Starting an infant or primary school is an exciting milestone for both you and your child.
It is completely normal to feel a mix of excitement and anxiety, but preparing for school isn't about teaching your child to read, write, or do maths before their first day.
Instead, 'school readiness' is all about helping your child build everyday independence, confidence, and simple routines so they feel secure and ready to learn.
Key skills to practise at home
You are likely doing much of this already through daily conversation, play, and family routines.
Focus on these core areas to help build your child's confidence.
- Everyday independence - Practise putting on coats and shoes, opening lunchbox containers, and using the toilet independently.
- Communication and feelings - Encourage your child to express their needs (e.g asking for help or a drink) and talk about the emotions they might be feeling about starting school.
- Social skills and play - Provide opportunities to practise sharing, taking turns, and playing alongside other children.
- Healthy routines - Establish consistent sleep schedules, limit screen time before bed, and practise handwashing together.
A note for parents of children with Special Educational Needs or Disabilities (SEND)
Every child develops at their own pace.
If your child has Special Educational Needs or Disabilities (SEND), schools are experienced in adapting support to meet individual needs.
You can contact the school's SENCO (Special Educational Needs Coordinator) or our local SENDIASS Team for advice prior to the start of term.
Useful resources and expert advice
We have gathered some trusted external guides and video resources to help support you and your child through this transition.
- BBC CBeebies Parenting Hub - Practical advice on early childhood milestones, sleep routines, potty training, and creative play ideas.
- Skills for Starting School – BBC Tiny Happy People - A central hub of short videos, activity ideas, and games designed to build language, listening, and independence skills.
- Worried Your Child Isn't Ready? (Dr Martha Deiros Collado) - Expert psychological guidance and practical reassurance to help manage parental anxieties and ease transition worries.
- Best Start in Life – Preparing for School (GOV.UK) - National guidance outlining simple everyday habits that build confidence, alongside advice on healthy routines and SEND support.